Venture Capital. Thoughts and Much Less. - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha's blog about the venture capital industry. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. It's a minefield that we've made. It is triggered just a second after coming into contact with someone and then ends with an amazing explosion...
The biggest error we make is that, for no good reason, we almost always presume that there is a complete alignment in the expectations of both sides without even trying to get our partner's brain to figure out what his expectations of us. We are almost always in total alignment with our counterpart, minus one thing that he does not miss an opportunity to expand this gap . We are not alerted by anyone.
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There are a myriad of causes that can cause confusion. Individuals with squares are likely to be misinformed by people of a liberal mindset, and individuals who are aggressive will have it difficult to reconcile expectations with passive ones. But, this isn't difficult to identify as we are all aware of the difference between liberal and squared, and active from passive.
Imagine if they were different? It's possible that there is a personality gap, which we do not know about. It has never been discovered and has never been reported or even investigated by anyone. !
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I'd like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, a new type if personality that we all share: the FULL-CIRCLE personality versus people from the half circle! !
It is a guide to behavior. When you read the following analysis, try to identify the personality that best describes you. Also, try to identify your partner in life. You may be surprised discover that your personalities are different. Like Bono said, "we are one, but we are not exactly the identical." It's a good sign because it could mean you have identified the root of many of your different personalities. If, on one hand you're of the same type, then I am sorry but I cannot help you understand the reason why your relationships look so bad.
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We are here...
There are two types of human beings: humans. Some of us fall into the "full-circle" category that is a person that can be completely independent and does not feel like the need for a partner. He requires a companion. Absolutely! It's all true ... But, until he's found the perfect partner, he will be able to live without one. And, once he has found one, he wishes to live his life shoulder to shoulder with his - hopefully full circle - partner.
The "half-a circle" type is the other aspect of humankind. (No, it's not full-circle , but it was damaged during delivery). Once they have found the miserable animal and they are determined to keep it go. They'll try to physically join their victim in a happy circle. The Halves will not sacrifice anything other than staring one at the other from a distance of zero for the rest of their lives. They'll never accept something less intimate to satisfy their desire to join with each other and create a whole.
A striking distinction between these types is the choice to end a relationship. The full circle will typically let go relatively quickly from a partner he lost the chemistry of. The half-circle types however they will redefine the concept of having chemistry mutually with their companions as 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD until I can replace him with an appropriate upgrade'.
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Imagine a dance where the half-circle and the full circle are trying to make their partner happy. But, the Half can make two steps to the left of the comfort zone. The unexpected intrusion into the privacy of his own is slightly intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half assumes that the Full made an innocent mistake, and graciously compensated by taking another step ahead, the Half is more worried and starts to get angry. They don't know why but they aren't using the correct terminology and can't explain the situation. So they go to the wrong places. They could have escaped in the event that they knew the difference between Full and Half.
This essay doesn't have any conclusive conclusion. However it does contain a few actions items.
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1. Learn more about who you are.
2. Find out more about your partner
3. There is a distinction.
3. Respect this distinction!
Let's say there's only one way to go: Live and let be.

Public Last updated: 2022-12-05 08:54:57 AM